“The Glad-You’re-Here Look”
Whenever someone you love comes through the door, you look up, greet them warmly and let them see that you are glad they are here.
From Feel More Attractive“Oh my goodness… is that you?”
says the person you sat next to for five years, at the reunion, half a second too slowly
If you have ever heard a pause like that one, you will know exactly what happens in the body next.
Your smile stays where it is, but something behind it freezes. Your jaw goes tight and your face suddenly feels very warm.
Near the door there is a board covered in old photographs, and your eighteen-year-old face is pinned right in the middle of it, grinning at you.
“You look… great!” they say, and the little gap before “great” is the loudest thing in the room.
What happened to that person on the board? And when did I stop looking after her?
So you do what so many people do. You laugh and say, “Oh, I’ve really let myself go,” before anyone else can think it.
They laugh too, kindly, and nobody contradicts you.
You spend the rest of the evening near the drinks table, nodding along, and you are home before ten.
The worst part happens at the kitchen table that night.
You take down the box of old photos, or you scroll back ten years on your phone, which comes to the same thing.
There you are at twenty-six, rested, laughing at something off camera, with a light in your face you had forgotten about.
Then you look at the week you just had. Bed after midnight five nights out of seven. Lunch eaten standing up. A walk you meant to take on Sunday that never happened.
And all the yeses. You covered a colleague’s shift, baked for the school sale, drove your sister’s boxes across town and answered work messages at eleven at night.
Everyone who asked you for something in the last seven days got the best of you, and you got whatever was left over.
That is when the quiet, heavy thought arrives, the one so many people carry and almost nobody says out loud: my best years are behind me.
There are only three things a person can do with a thought like that
The third way is slower to describe and much easier to live, and it is what this page is about.
The anti-ageing world has it backwards.
Its whole message is “turn back the clock,” as though your worth stopped the day you turned thirty. Its idea of self-care is a face mask in a photo on social media. And the posters that tell you to “learn to say no” never tell you what words to use when your sister is standing in front of you holding a box.
So where do you look instead?
Psychologists have looked at what makes a person attractive over time
When researchers showed people photos of faces and told them about the person behind each one, faces that came with good qualities such as honesty and helpfulness were rated as more physically attractive. Bad qualities brought the ratings down, whatever the face looked like to start with.
In a study of 37 cultures, men and women both put kindness and understanding at or near the very top of what they want in a partner, above looks and above income.
And when people’s photos were taken after two nights of short sleep, strangers rated them as less attractive and less healthy, and were less keen to spend time with them. The researchers called the effect fairly small, but it shows up on a face all the same.
One more finding matters here. After a conversation, people tend to underestimate how much the other person liked them. Psychologists even have a name for it: the liking gap.
Put that together and the picture changes completely.
A great deal of what makes you attractive is something you do every day, and it can keep growing.
Dr. Steve G. Jones has turned that idea into
three self-hypnosis tracks and a set of small daily habits you rehearse in deep relaxation, 12 of them shown below
Every habit hangs on a moment that is already in your day: someone coming through the door, a favour you are asked for, bedtime, an invitation.
Together they work like an owner’s manual for the fire inside you, the one that dims when nobody tends it.
The warmth people feel when they are near you, and the respect you show yourself.
Now picture an evening a little while from now
An invitation comes in for a friend’s birthday drinks. The old you would already be drafting the excuse. This time you feel a small spark of excitement and you say yes.
You slept well the night before, because the phone went in the other room an hour before bed.
Someone you haven’t met says hello. You use her name twice, and you listen to her talk about her new job with real interest. When the doubt whispers that she has only come over to be polite, you smile at it like an old friend.
At ten your boss texts to ask whether you can cover the early meeting tomorrow. You take a slow breath, write “Let me think about that,” and put the phone face down.
On the way home you catch yourself humming, and a small surprised voice in your head asks, “Where did THAT come from?”
Nothing in that evening is invented for this page. Each moment comes from a suggestion on one of the three tracks, and on Feel More Attractive, Steve gives you the picture behind them all:
“A fire that is tended every day warms everyone who comes near it, all winter long.”
Dr. Steve G. Jones, on the Feel More Attractive track
A little wood each day, and the warmth comes back.
Why one track became three
Caring for yourself and sharing your warmth is the first layer, and Feel More Attractive covers it fully.
But people who have spent years putting everyone else first often find a second problem underneath. They have stopped trusting their own judgement, about what they need and about who deserves their time. Learn to Trust Again rebuilds that, one kept promise at a time.
And a warm fire is meant to be shared. Magnet For Love takes the warmth you are building out of the front door, to the places where people meet, with one friendly sentence at a time.
Put the three together and you have what this page calls
The Tended Fire Methodafter the winter-cabin fire on the first track, which glows a little warmer every day someone adds a little wood
It fits because all three tracks ask the same thing of you. Add a little each day and let the warmth build.
Which brings the whole thing round to you.
No promise to make you look younger, only habits that are in your hands
These tracks make no promise to make you look younger, lose weight, clear your skin or find you a partner. They work on what you do: how you greet people, how you rest, how you answer a request, how you step out of the door.
And that is good news, because what you do is in your hands.
When Steve talks about food and movement on the track, he says “in a way that your doctor approves of.” And if your sleep or your energy ever trouble you, he tells you to see your doctor, because caring for yourself includes asking for help.
How a recording can change a habit you have had for years
Each track begins by guiding you into deep, comfortable relaxation. On Feel More Attractive you settle into a deep armchair in a wooden cabin in the hills on a winter evening, with snow falling outside and a fire crackling, and the snowflakes count you down from ten to one.
In that relaxed state Steve gives you short, clear suggestions, then goes quiet so that you can see yourself doing each one.
Steve builds each suggestion around a trigger and a response, which researchers call an if-then plan: whenever this happens, I do that. The knock at the door or the favour you are asked for does the remembering, so you don’t have to.
You listen every day, and the habit slowly moves from something you have to remember to something you simply do.
Are you ready to put yourself back on your own list?
Are you ready to say yes to the next invitation instead of drafting the excuse?
Are you ready to be more attractive at sixty than you were at thirty, in the ways that matter most?
Three questions, and if you have read all the way down to here, three yeses.
Dr. Steve G. Jones has practised clinical hypnotherapy since the 1980s and once had 30,000 students enrolled in his programs. Every line on these tracks comes out of that experience.
These three tracks were made to do three things for you.
Here are 12 of the habits you rehearse when you take home The Tended Fire Method today
“The Breathing-Room Answer”
Your one free evening, and someone asks for one more favour. What comes out of your mouth? On this track it is a slow breath and “Let me think about that,” and then the answer that is right for you.
From Feel More Attractive“The First-Name Habit”
Whenever you meet someone, you greet them by name and listen with real interest to what they say. It costs nothing, and it is one of the warmest things a person can do.
From Feel More Attractive“The Small Kindness A Day”
Each day you do at least one small kind thing for someone else: a thoughtful message, a word of praise, a hand with something, a thank-you.
From Feel More Attractive“The Lamp-Low Hour”
In the last hour before bed you dim the lights, put your phone away and do something calm you enjoy, and you go to bed at a regular time. You may catch yourself looking forward to bedtime again.
From Feel More Attractive“The Yours-Alone Hour”
Each week you keep some time for something that is yours alone. A full life makes a person more interesting to be around, starting with you.
From Feel More AttractiveAnd so much more…
“The Kept-Promise Morning”
After years of putting yourself last, you may have stopped believing your own promises. Each morning you make one small promise for the day and keep it, and every one tells your mind, “I can count on me.”
From Learn to Trust Again“The Gut-Feeling Check”
Whenever you meet someone new, you notice how you feel in their company and you take that feeling seriously. If something feels wrong, you honour it calmly and give yourself time to see more.
From Learn to Trust Again“The Spark-Of-Yes Rule”
Whenever an invitation arrives, to a party, a dinner or a night out with friends, you feel a spark of excitement and you say yes.
From Magnet For Love“The Weekly Where”
Each week you choose at least one place where you can meet new people around something you enjoy, and you keep going back. It goes in your calendar like any other appointment, so expect your weeks to fill up.
From Magnet For LoveThere isn’t room here for the evening look back over your day, the one friendly sentence about the moment you share, or the kind thing you do the moment a thought says your best years are behind you…
“The Benefit-Of-The-Doubt Replay”
After a conversation, the old habit replays everything you said wrong. On this track you remember that the people you talk with enjoy your company more than you think, and you give yourself the benefit of the doubt.
From Magnet For Love“The Old-Friend Smile”
an old doubt whispers that they won’t be interested in you. You smile at it like an old friend, take one breath and say hello anyway.
From Magnet For LoveSo who is the voice on these tracks?
His name is Dr. Steve G. Jones, and you won’t hear a single word about skin cream on these tracks. He is a licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and he has been practising clinical hypnotherapy and NLP since the 1980s.
His own life once hit a wall. After career detours and failed business ventures he owed $80,000 on credit cards, collection agencies were beating down his door, and after being evicted he was living out of his office. He turned it around by reprogramming his mind and building simple systems to get his life back on track.
These days he coaches top Hollywood directors, sports stars and CEOs, manages 22 training certification programs in hypnosis and NLP, and is President of both the American Alliance of Hypnotists and the American Union of NLP.
What people have said about Dr. Steve G. Jones and his hypnosis programs
“without a doubt the best in his field”
Dr. Steve G. Jones is without a doubt the best in his field.
“Thank you from the bottom of my heart.”
I would highly recommend you and your site to anyone who is fed up with the way things are now, this minute, and want to open a new door to a new path. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
“How lucky are those who have had the benefit of his genius!”
WOW! No wonder Steve is the leader in hypnotherapy. How lucky are those who have had the benefit of his genius!
“the positive impact it’s made on my life”
My appreciation for your work and the positive impact it’s made on my life is far more than I’m able to describe here. However, I’ve been inspired to live out my dreams and have actually taken real steps towards its realization in the past few months. Your Fan, Student & Friend.
“effective and very useful”
I have been lucky enough to be able to listen to Steve Jones’ recordings for about 7 or 8 years. I have always believed in hypnosis and have found these recordings to be effective and very useful. I just listen and notice the change.
Each of these people is talking about Steve’s hypnosis work in general, not about this edition.
Do you feel that?
That loosening in your shoulders when you picture a week with an hour in it that belongs only to you. The little flicker of warmth at the idea of walking into a room and being glad to be there.
How much would it be worth to you to wake up rested and like the face in the mirror a little more each year?
How much would it be worth to answer the next favour with a calm “Let me think about that” instead of a tired yes?
How much would it be worth to trust your own read on people again?
And how much would it be worth to say yes to the next invitation and enjoy the evening?
Most people simply let the fire go out.
They tell themselves they will make time for themselves once the children are older, once work calms down, once things settle. Things rarely settle, and another birthday comes round.
It is worth sitting with that for a moment.
So what should three tracks like these cost?
There is a simple way to answer, because each one is sold by itself at dreamlifetrack.com. On its own, Feel More Attractive is $29.95, Learn to Trust Again is $29.95 and Magnet For Love is $29.95.
If you bought them one at a time, you would pay $89.85.
The Feel More Attractive Complete Edition brings all three together in one order, for less than you would pay for two and a half of them:
just $69.95so you keep $19.90 for something that is yours alone
Your order is backed by our 30-Day, No-Questions-Asked, 100% Satisfaction Guarantee.
The order to listen in
Steve suggests staying with one track for 21 days, and the three tracks follow on from each other. Begin with Feel More Attractive to build the fire, go on to Learn to Trust Again to steady your own judgement, then finish with Magnet For Love and take the warmth out into the world. That is why they cost less together: the edition is one plan.
It all comes as an instant download, and you can start the first track tonight.
And because you shouldn’t have to take anyone’s word for it…
Listen for 30 days, then decide.
Get the Feel More Attractive Complete Edition, download the three tracks and listen every day. Try the habits on real evenings, with real favours and real invitations.
If at any point in those 30 days you aren’t 100% happy, send one email and every penny comes back to you. It is the fairest way to find out whether these tracks belong in your life.
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What you get in the Feel More Attractive Complete Edition
Track oneFeel More Attractive
Warmth towards others, a calm last hour before bed, water and daily movement your doctor approves of, a kind and honest no, and time that is yours alone, all rehearsed beside a crackling cabin fire on a winter evening.
Sold on its own for $29.95
Track twoLearn to Trust Again
Trust in your own judgement first, then trust given step by step to the people who earn it. A small promise kept each morning, your gut feeling taken seriously, and a calm question for the old doubt, rehearsed in a quiet garden in autumn.
Sold on its own for $29.95
Track threeMagnet For Love
For single people who are ready to meet someone. Saying yes to invitations, one weekly place to meet people, one friendly sentence and a smile for the old doubt, rehearsed on a stone terrace above a village as the lights come on.
Sold on its own for $29.95
Here is the whole thing added up.
| Feel More Attractive, sold on its own | $29.95 |
| Learn to Trust Again, sold on its own | $29.95 |
| Magnet For Love, sold on its own | $29.95 |
| All three, bought one at a time at dreamlifetrack.com | $89.85 |
| The Feel More Attractive Complete Edition | $69.95 |
When you click the button, ClickBank handles your payment on the next page, and then you download the tracks as MP3 files for your phone, tablet or computer. Find a comfortable chair, put on headphones and you are ready.
A single $69.95 payment covers every track in the edition.
Picture the year ahead with the fire lit
You wake up rested more mornings than not, and you notice it in the mirror.
The people you love get a real welcome when they walk in, and you get one too, from yourself.
You say “Let me think about that” and nobody falls apart, least of all you.
Your calendar has an evening in it every week that is simply yours, and another with new people in it.
And at the next reunion, when someone says “Is that you?”, you laugh and say, “It certainly is.”
Next week, either the favours win again or the fire gets its wood.
Your best years can still be ahead of you.
Do you know what keeps a fire burning all winter long? A big log once a month won’t do it. It needs a little wood every single day.
The warmth people feel from you is built the same way, from small things repeated: a name remembered, a bedtime kept, a favour declined kindly, an invitation accepted.
If the gap between where you are and that kind of warmth feels wide, make one small decision tonight and add the first piece of wood.
The cabin door is open and the fire is laid. All it needs is the first match.
P.S. Thirty days is plenty of time to add wood to the fire and see how warm it gets. If you aren’t 100% happy by then, simply email support@dreamlifeprogram.com and every penny comes back, no questions asked.
P.P.S. Bought one at a time, Feel More Attractive, Learn to Trust Again and Magnet For Love come to $89.85. The Feel More Attractive Complete Edition gives you all three tracks and all 12 habits on this page for $69.95, as an instant download, so the first log could be on the fire within minutes.
“Yes! I’m ready to put myself back on my own list, trust my own judgement and let my warmth draw people close, year after year.”
