This page calls it the “Trust Pendulum”: the swing between shutting everyone out and trusting too fast. Dr. Steve G. Jones’s self-hypnosis track helps you trust your own judgment again first, and then give your trust step by step to the people who earn it.
Dr. Steve G. Jones, Ed.D. Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, practicing hypnotherapy and NLP since the 1980s.
Being let down by a partner, a friend, family or a business partner tends to leave a mark that shows up later, with people who had nothing to do with it. A new friend starts to get closer and something pulls back. A promise gets a silent “we’ll see”. Someone kind comes along, and a voice says this one will do the same.
For some people it swings the other way. They’ve been careful for so long that when someone new appears, everything comes out at once, before that person has shown who they are.
Most people have heard some version of these:
All three keep the swing going.
When trust feels impossible, people tend to blame:
The track starts somewhere else, with one sentence it comes back to again and again: “You trust your own judgment, and you give your trust step by step to people who earn it.” Trust in yourself comes first, and trust in other people follows at its own pace.
This page calls what gets in the way the “Trust Pendulum”. Picture a pendulum. After a hurt it swings hard to one side: walls up and every promise met with doubt. In time it swings back the other way, and someone new gets everything at once. It passes through the middle, where trust is given a step at a time, without ever stopping there.
Making a firm decision rarely stops it, because every swing starts from the same thought: “I can’t trust my own judgment.”
What brings it to rest is something this page calls “Sure Footing”: your own good sense, the part of you that has been right about people before. The track works with it in two ways:
Dr. Jones has rebuilt a life from the ground up. Before he became a self-made multimillionaire, he was $80,000 in credit card debt and living out of an office he was about to lose. How that turned around comes later on this page.
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Now picture an evening with a friend you’re getting to know. You share something small about yourself and notice what they do with it. They keep it, and next time you share a little more, at your own pace and with your eyes open.
Left to itself, the Trust Pendulum tends to swing wider:
Today Dr. Steve G. Jones manages 22 training certification programs in hypnosis and NLP, and he coaches top Hollywood directors, sports stars and CEOs. His early years were far from easy.
He lost his mother at an early age and grew up with his father, who battled alcohol abuse.
Later, after a string of career detours and failed business ventures, he was $80,000 in credit card debt, and financial institutions and collection agencies were beating down on his door. After he was evicted from his own place, he lived out of his office, which he was about to lose as well.
Getting back on his feet started with what went on in his own mind.
How he did it comes further down. First, a closer look at those three ideas about trust.
Each of these sounds sensible when it’s offered, and each one pushes the pendulum somewhere it doesn’t need to go.
Walls do keep some hurt out. They also keep out the friend who would have stood by you, and they’re tiring to hold up day after day. The track treats them kindly:
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“That was your way of protecting yourself, and it did its job well. I now give you permission to set that heavy armor down, piece by piece, whenever you feel ready.”
People often say this to someone who has been guarded for a while, and it sends the pendulum straight to the other end. Trust handed over all at once skips the part where a person shows you who they are.
This one does the most damage, because it drives both ends of the swing. A person who doubts their own read either shuts everyone out to be safe or stops listening to the feeling that something is wrong.
Where the track begins
“Think now of a time when your own good sense was right.”
Perhaps you chose a friend who has stood by you for years, or saw a situation clearly before anyone else did. The track starts there, with your own judgment, before it turns to anyone else.
Research on betrayal has found that being let down by one person can lower trust in people who had nothing to do with it, including complete strangers.
The Trust Pendulum
The swing between shutting people out and trusting too fast, driven by the thought that your own judgment can’t be relied on.
Look at the pendulum for a moment. It’s never still at either end, and it passes the middle without stopping. In daily life the swing looks like this:
Neither end comes from careful choice. Both come from doubting your own read of people.
So learning to trust again starts with steadying that read.
Sure Footing
Your own good sense: noticing what people do as well as what they say, and offering trust one small step at a time, more each time it’s kept.
On the track, it’s a path of ten flat stepping stones across a still pond to a small tea house. Before each step you feel the stone with your foot and notice how firm it is, and each stone that holds earns your next step. On the far side, you look back and realize that the feet that tested every stone were your own.
From there, the track brings Sure Footing into everyday life in two ways:
The Trust Pendulum is easiest to feel just before you open up.
Think of someone fairly new in your life, such as a colleague, a neighbor or a person you’ve just met. Press start, and for seven seconds picture telling them one small thing about yourself.
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Did anything swing in from the past? Tap whatever came up:
It’s only a game, not a test or a diagnosis, and whatever turns up says nothing about you.
A few everyday habits keep the swing going without anyone noticing.
Three of them do most of the pushing:
The track has a habit for each one. You ask yourself, “What has this person actually shown me?” You notice what people do as well as what they say. And whenever something matters to you, you say so clearly and kindly, then watch how they respond.
Living out of an office he was about to lose, Steve discovered a way to reprogram his mind to attract everything he needed, and to put systems in place that got his life back on track.
He used a combination of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques and a specific framework for happiness and success, and from it he developed the Dream Life Mastery Program for getting the results he wanted.
Learn to Trust Again follows the same order: the inside first, with trust in your own judgment, and then a few simple systems for how you give trust to other people.
He went on to become a self-made multimillionaire. At one time he had 30,000 students enrolled in his programs.
$80,000 in credit card debtLiving out of his office22 certification programs today
The track works in two stages, and between them they cover six things:
First, Steve guides you into deep relaxation on a low wooden bench in a quiet garden in the Japanese style, on a mild autumn afternoon. Red and gold maples glow around a still pond, and water trickles from a bamboo spout.
Why relax first? A guarded mind is a tense one, braced for the next letdown, and deep relaxation lets the new ideas land without a fight. Then, as Steve counts down from ten to one, you cross the stepping stones one firm step at a time.
This first stage is called the induction, and it ends on the far side of the pond.
Then come the suggestions, in Steve’s calm, steady voice, with silences for you to recall a time your judgment was right, to see yourself offering one small piece of trust, and to picture tomorrow’s first step.
Couldn’t you just decide to trust people again? That decision has to compete with a doubt that answers first, so the track is designed to make swaps like these:
This second stage is the suggestions, and together the two stages build your Sure Footing.
It’s called Learn to Trust Again.
This self-hypnosis track helps you trust your own judgment again, and give your trust step by step to people who show you that they deserve it.
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Once trust in yourself is steady, you can be open and safe at the same time, which is the balance the Trust Pendulum never lets you find.
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Think about letting a good friend a little closer without lying awake about it, or hearing a promise and simply waiting to see it kept.
Steadying the Trust Pendulum could give you:
Dr. Jones coaches top Hollywood directors and CEOs. This track puts his approach into an MP3 you can play at home, for one payment of $29.95.
Spread over the 21 days Steve suggests staying with one track, that comes to about $1.43 a day.
Learn to Trust Again is a single self-hypnosis audio track of about 38 minutes, sold on its own at one price.
Trust grows through promises that are kept, so give it time. Listen every day, and stay with this one track for 21 days before you move on to another.
Trust your own judgment again, and give your trust step by step to the people who earn it.
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A little caution about this page is only natural, and it’s exactly the kind of judgment the track respects.
The guarantee works like one of the stepping stones. Put a little weight on it, listen every day, and see how it holds.
I want you to feel completely confident getting your copy of Learn to Trust Again. Just place your order, download the self-hypnosis audio track and listen to it every day. If at any time during the next 30 days you don't feel 100% happy with your purchase, I'll refund every penny, no questions asked. Just email support@dreamlifeprogram.com.
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What people are saying about Dr. Steve G. Jones’s hypnosis programs
“I just listen and notice the change.”
I have been lucky enough to be able to listen to Steve Jones’ recordings for about 7 or 8 years. I have always believed in hypnosis and have found these recordings to be effective and very useful. I just listen and notice the change.
“open a new door to a new path”
I would highly recommend you and your site to anyone who is fed up with the way things are now, this minute, and want to open a new door to a new path. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
It’s easy to leave things as they are and tell yourself you’re simply a private person now.
Meanwhile the Trust Pendulum keeps swinging. New friends stay at arm’s length while someone else gets everything too soon, and each time it goes wrong, the old belief that you can’t trust your own judgment gets another piece of evidence.
Or you can start tonight. Put on your headphones, press play and cross the ten stepping stones with Steve.
Tomorrow you keep one small promise to yourself. When someone new comes along, you offer a small piece of trust and notice what they do with it, and when they keep it, you offer a little more.
You have a full 30 days to change your mind.
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It’s this page’s name for the swing between shutting people out and trusting too fast that often follows being let down. Both ends start from the same thought, “I can’t trust my own judgment”, which is why the track begins with you.
It’s this page’s name for your own good sense: noticing what people do as well as what they say, and offering trust one small step at a time. On the track it’s the stepping stones you test with your own foot before you give them your weight.
No. It mentions in one line that someone once let you down, and then it moves on. It works on trust in yourself and on how you give trust from here. If old hurts ever feel heavy, the track suggests talking with a counselor or therapist and letting a good listener help you carry them.
No. The track never asks you to trust anyone who hasn’t earned it, or to stay with anyone who harms you. If you’re in a relationship where you don’t feel safe, please reach out to a counselor or a local support line first. A self-hypnosis track can’t take the place of that help.
Overcome Jealousy is for the jealous moment inside a relationship, when a phone lights up or a partner laughs with someone else. Learn to Trust Again is about trusting your own judgment after being let down, and the pace at which you give trust to new or returning people.
Sit or lie down somewhere you won’t be disturbed for about 38 minutes, put on a pair of headphones and press play. The track ends by bringing you back wide awake, ready to carry on with your day. Never play it while driving.
It really depends on your individual needs, so nobody can promise a date. The track is designed to be played every day, and Steve suggests staying with one track for 21 days. The 30-day guarantee gives you longer than that to decide.
Yes. The program is built on broad human psychology, with techniques, tips and methods that people have used for thousands of years, so it suits adults of any age. Whether you're 21 or 61, it is never too early or too late to start building better habits.
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The self-hypnosis file is mp3 format which means it can be downloaded to a phone, tablet or computer, or any other device to easily access it instantly.
We have a 30 day money back guarantee. If you decide that the program is not for you within 30 days, then we'll refund every penny, no questions asked.
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“You trust yourself first, and you let trust grow, one step at a time, with the people who earn it.”
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Dr. Steve G. Jones, Ed.D.Clinical Hypnotherapist
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