“The Lit-Window Yes”
Whenever an invitation arrives, to a party, a dinner or a night out with friends, you feel a spark of excitement and you say yes, before the excuse has time to form.
From Magnet For Love“So… are you seeing anyone yet?”
your aunt asks over the wedding cake, loud enough for the whole table to hear
If you have ever been asked that question at a wedding, you will remember the next ten seconds in slow motion.
Your fork stops halfway to your mouth. The heat starts in your cheeks and spreads to your ears, and the table goes just quiet enough for everyone to wait for your answer.
Your cousin gives you a sympathetic little smile, which is somehow the worst part.
What am I supposed to say? That I would love to be, and I have no idea how?
So you say what single people have said at weddings for a hundred years. “Oh, I’m far too busy for all that,” with a light laugh, and then, a bit too quickly, “I’m honestly happy on my own.”
Your aunt pats your hand. Nobody believes you, including you.
Then the band starts the slow song, the dance floor fills with couples, and you discover an urgent need to check your coat.
The worst part comes later, back at the hotel.
You sit on the edge of the bed in your good clothes and scroll through the photos everyone is already posting.
Then, without quite meaning to, you open your calendar. The last six Saturday nights were spent at home. You turned down three invitations this month, each with a perfectly good reason.
And the sentence you say to friends all the time, “I never meet anyone,” suddenly sounds different. You never meet anyone because you hardly ever go anywhere new.
You feel invisible, and a little foolish. And in every photo of the happy couple on your screen, the bride is laughing with her whole face, like someone who has stopped waiting.
Lying there in the dark, you make a quiet decision.
A single person who wants love has three choices
Everything below is about that third way.
Most dating advice is either useless or slimy.
On one side are the well-meaning friends who say “Stop looking and it will find you,” which in practice means a lot of quiet evenings at home. On the other are the pick-up “experts” with their scripts, their mind games and their rules about waiting three days to reply. You knew that couldn’t be the truth. Finding love shouldn’t mean turning into someone you don’t like.
The research on how people actually meet is far kinder
Some of the oldest studies in social psychology found that people tend to become friends with the people they see most often, and that simply seeing someone again and again makes them more likable. Turning up at the same place, week after week, matters far more than most people think.
Researchers who had people talk to strangers found that the conversations generally went better than people expected, and that a week of practice made the fear smaller.
After a conversation, people tend to underestimate how much the other person liked them. Psychologists call it the liking gap.
And looking further ahead, couples who did new and exciting things together reported less boredom and a better relationship than couples who stuck to pleasant, familiar evenings.
On the track, Steve sums up the starting point in five words:
“Love finds people where people are.”
He has built that idea, and what comes after it, into
three self-hypnosis tracks of warm, simple habits you rehearse in deep relaxation, 12 of them waiting for you below
Each habit hangs on a moment you will meet anyway: an invitation, a face across a room, the old feeling rising, the end of a long day together.
Together they work like an owner’s manual for a love story, from the first hello to the tenth anniversary.
How you meet people, how you stay calm when you start to care, and how you keep the spark alive.
Now picture the next invitation
A friend’s birthday drinks, at a bar you’ve never been to, on a Friday when you are tired.
The old pull to stay in arrives right on cue. You take one slow breath, think of the warm light in your chest, and go and get ready.
Across the room there is someone with a kind laugh. Your eyes meet, you smile, and you say one friendly sentence: “How do you know Sam?”
Just before you spoke, the old doubt whispered that they wouldn’t be interested. You smiled at it like an old friend and said hello anyway.
Whatever happens next, you walk home lighter, because you were brave enough to say it, and a small voice asks, “Where did THAT come from?”
Those steps are rehearsed, one by one, in the silences on Magnet For Love. Behind all of them sits a single picture, and here it is in Steve’s words:
“Just like a lit window on a summer evening, it can be seen from far away, and it tells people that they are welcome.”
Dr. Steve G. Jones, on the Magnet For Love track
Every hello you say opens a door, whatever happens next.
Why stop at the first hello?
Meeting someone is the first chapter, and it is the one Magnet For Love is made for.
But the moment you start to care about someone, a new fear can turn up. Their phone lights up at dinner, they laugh with a colleague at a party, and the old feeling grips your stomach. Overcome Jealousy helps you let it settle, check it against the facts and talk about it kindly, so it doesn’t spoil something good.
And years from now, when evenings together have turned into two people on two screens, Put the Spark Back brings fresh curiosity and warm attention back to the one you love.
Read the three tracks as one love story, from the first hello to year ten, and you get what this page calls
The Lit Window Methodafter the warm light in your chest on the first track, which can be seen from far away and tells people they are welcome
The name holds for all three tracks, because a lit window does three jobs. It welcomes people in, it stays steady through the night, and it is the thing you come home to.
Which brings us to you.
Nobody can promise you a partner, and these tracks don’t try
Nobody can honestly promise you a partner, a date or a time frame, and these tracks don’t. Steve’s own picture of the year ahead on the track is a life full of friendship and warmth, “and perhaps someone special beside you.” What the tracks build is the person who goes out, says hello and stays open, and that is the part that is in your hands.
And they keep you safe while you do it.
On Magnet For Love, meeting someone new means choosing a public place and letting a friend know where you are. And if old hurts ever weigh on your heart, Steve says you reach out to a counsellor or therapist, because asking for support is a sign of strength.
How do you rehearse a love life with your eyes closed?
Each track begins with deep, comfortable relaxation. On Magnet For Love you sit on a warm stone terrace high above a little village on a summer evening, with music and laughter drifting up from the square, and Steve counts you down from ten to one as the lights come on in the windows below.
Then, while you are relaxed, he gives you short, clear suggestions, with silences in which you see yourself doing each one.
Steve ties each suggestion to a real moment in the shape researchers call an if-then plan, whenever this happens, I do that. An invitation landing, a face across the room or a phone lighting up then carries the reminder for you.
Listen every day, and what you rehearsed in the quiet starts turning up in your evenings.
Are you ready to say yes to the next invitation?
Are you ready to say hello to someone you’d like to know?
Are you ready to welcome love, and keep it warm for years?
Anyone who reads this far down the page has already answered.
Dr. Steve G. Jones has practised clinical hypnotherapy and NLP since the 1980s, and he has coached top Hollywood directors, sports stars and CEOs.
For a love life, the tracks had to pass three tests.
Here are 12 of the habits you rehearse with The Lit Window Method
“The Moment-We-Share Sentence”
You see someone you would like to talk to. What do you say? Eyes meet, a smile, and one friendly sentence about the moment you share, such as “How do you know the host?” or “What brings you here today?”
From Magnet For Love“The Same-Place-Again Week”
Each week you choose at least one place where you can meet new people around something you enjoy: a class, a walking group, a choir, a club. Then you keep going back, so faces become friends.
From Magnet For Love“The Tell-Your-Friends Nudge”
You tell your friends that you are open to meeting someone, and you let them introduce you to people they like. It is one small change, and it puts a lot more people in reach.
From Magnet For Love“The Generous Replay”
After a conversation, the old habit plays back everything you said wrong. On this track you remember that the people you talk with enjoy your company more than you think. You may stop dreading your own memory.
From Magnet For Love“The Wish-Them-Well Exit”
Whenever someone is busy, or simply not the right match for you, you know it is only information about that moment. You wish them well and move on with a light heart.
From Magnet For LoveAnd so much more…
“The Long Out-Breath”
When the familiar tightness rises because someone you care about is laughing with somebody else, you take one long, slow breath, with the breath out longer than the breath in, and let the feeling settle like snow.
From Overcome Jealousy“The Facts-First Question”
Whenever your imagination starts writing a story, you ask yourself, “What do I actually know?”, and you let the facts guide you.
From Overcome Jealousy“The Gentle Later”
At a calm moment you say, “I felt a little insecure earlier, and I would love to talk about it,” and then you listen fully. A soft start to a hard conversation goes a long way.
From Overcome Jealousy“The Fresh Question”
Years from now, whenever you sit down together at the end of the day, you ask one fresh question, such as “What made you smile today?”, and you really listen to the answer.
From Put the Spark BackThere isn’t room here for the two good thoughts each evening, the playful message in the middle of the day, or how you greet each other at the door…
“The Fridge-List Adventure”
Once a week the two of you do something that is new to both of you, chosen in turn from a list of ideas on the fridge and put in the calendar so it really happens. Your weekends may get a lot less predictable.
From Put the Spark Back“The Light-Up”
you have ever met someone’s good news with a flat “That’s nice.” From now on, whenever your partner shares good news with you, you light up with them.
From Put the Spark BackWho the heck is Dr. Steve G. Jones?
He isn’t a pick-up artist or a matchmaker, and you won’t hear a single chat-up line on these tracks. Steve is a licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist with a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of Florida and a Doctorate in Education from Georgia Southern University.
He has practised clinical hypnotherapy and NLP since the 1980s, and at one time 30,000 students were enrolled in his programs. He is President of the American Alliance of Hypnotists and the American Union of NLP.
And he knows what it is to start again from nothing. Years ago, after failed business ventures, he was $80,000 in credit card debt and living in his office after being evicted. He reprogrammed his mind, put simple systems in place, and built the Dream Life Mastery Program out of what worked.
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Can you feel it already?
That little flutter of nerves and excitement at the thought of walking into a room full of people, and actually wanting to.
How much would it be worth to you to look forward to Friday night instead of dreading the quiet?
How much would it be worth to say hello to someone you like without your mind going blank?
How much would it be worth to stay calm when you start to care, instead of letting the old feeling spoil it?
And how much would it be worth to still be laughing with someone years from now?
Most people spend years waiting for love to knock.
They pay for app subscriptions they barely open and buy books of rules that leave them feeling like a salesperson. Another wedding comes round, the same aunt asks the same question, and the same answer comes out.
Sit with that for a moment.
What should a whole love story cost?
Each of these tracks has its own page at dreamlifetrack.com, so the answer is easy to check. Magnet For Love is $29.95 on its own, Overcome Jealousy is $29.95 and Put the Spark Back is $29.95.
All three, bought one by one, come to $89.85.
The Magnet For Love Complete Edition gives you every chapter in one order, for less than two and a half tracks would cost:
a single payment of $69.95$19.90 less than buying them separately
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One chapter at a time
Steve suggests staying with one track for 21 days. Begin with Magnet For Love, and keep Overcome Jealousy and Put the Spark Back ready for when you need them, whether that is the first time a phone lights up at dinner or the first evening you notice you are both on screens. That is why the three cost less together: they are one story.
Everything arrives as an instant download, ready for tonight.
And so there is nothing at all to lose…
Take 30 days to see how it feels.
Order the Magnet For Love Complete Edition, download the tracks and listen every day. Say yes to invitations, say hello, and use the long out-breath when you need it.
If at any time in the next 30 days you don’t feel 100% happy with your purchase, email support and every penny comes back. The only way to find out what these tracks do for you is to hear them.
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The three tracks in the Magnet For Love Complete Edition
Track oneMagnet For Love
For single people who are ready to meet someone. Saying yes, a weekly place to meet people, one friendly sentence, the benefit of the doubt after a conversation, and a smile for the old doubt, rehearsed on a summer terrace above a village.
Sold on its own for $29.95
Track twoOvercome Jealousy
For the moment you start to care and the old feeling flares. Name it, breathe it down, check the facts, turn the urge to check into something good for you, and talk openly later. Rehearsed in a still, snowy valley.
Sold on its own for $29.95
Track threePut the Spark Back
For a long relationship that has slipped into routine. Fresh questions, turning towards each other, celebrating good news, appreciation said out loud and something new each week, rehearsed beside a campfire under the stars.
Sold on its own for $29.95
Here is how it adds up.
| Magnet For Love, sold on its own | $29.95 |
| Overcome Jealousy, sold on its own | $29.95 |
| Put the Spark Back, sold on its own | $29.95 |
| All three, bought separately at dreamlifetrack.com | $89.85 |
| The Magnet For Love Complete Edition | $69.95 |
Click the button and you go to ClickBank’s secure order page to pay. Straight after that you download the tracks as MP3 files for your phone, tablet or computer. Put on headphones, get comfortable and press play.
Every chapter of the love story for one payment of $69.95.
Imagine the year ahead
Your calendar has people in it again, with a class on Tuesdays, a walking group on Sundays and friends who know you are open to meeting someone.
You say hello to strangers and find that most conversations go better than you feared.
A phone lights up at dinner and you breathe out slowly, and the feeling settles on its own.
And you catch yourself wearing a goofy smile you can’t quite wipe off, for no particular reason at all.
The next invitation gets either an excuse or a yes.
Love finds people where people are.
Do you know what a lit window does? Nothing dramatic. It simply stays on, and anyone walking past in the dark can see that someone is home.
Warmth works much the same way. It can only be seen when you are there, in the room, with the light on.
If the distance between tonight and that kind of life feels huge, shrink it to one small decision.
The music is playing in the square below. Go down and say hello.
P.S. Say yes to a few invitations, say hello a few times, and judge for yourself. If at any point in 30 days you aren’t 100% happy, email support@dreamlifeprogram.com and you get every penny back, with no questions asked and no hoops to jump through.
P.P.S. Bought separately, the three tracks would cost $89.85, at $29.95 each. The Magnet For Love Complete Edition gives you all three and all 12 habits on this page for $69.95, as an instant download, so you could be on that summer terrace watching the village lights come on within minutes.
“Yes! I’m ready to step out, say hello, stay calm when I start to care and keep the spark alive for years.”
