This page calls it the “Verdict Reflex”: hearing a no, a silence or a short reply as a judgment on your whole worth, until not asking feels like the safest choice. Stop Fear of Rejection, a self-hypnosis track by Dr. Steve G. Jones, is designed to change that.
Dr. Steve G. Jones, Ed.D. Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, practicing hypnotherapy and NLP since the 1980s.
The thumb hovers over send for a long time. In the meeting the idea stays unsaid, and the application sits in its folder for another week.
Behind that pause there is usually a quick calculation: if I ask and they say no, what does that say about me? For a lot of people the answer feels obvious, and so the safest choice seems to be not asking at all.
Most people grow up hearing some version of these:
All three are wrong, and the last one costs the most.
When an ask doesn’t happen, people usually blame themselves:
The cause sits deeper, in a habit of mind this page calls the “Verdict Reflex”. It treats any answer you might get as a verdict on you as a person, so a no stops being information about timing or fit and becomes proof of something you already feared.
Courage alone doesn’t switch it off, because the habit runs in the subconscious, underneath the part of you that decides to be brave.
What does reach it is something this page calls the “Kite String”, after an image on the track itself, and it does two things a pep talk can’t:
Steve’s own path ran through career detours, failed business ventures and $80,000 of credit card debt. How it turned around is further down this page.
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Now picture sending the message the moment you think of it. You smile and say hello to someone new, and you put your idea forward in the meeting while it’s still fresh. Some answers are yes and some are no, and you walk away from every one of them with your head held high.
Left alone, the Verdict Reflex tends to tighten its grip:
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He lost his mother at an early age and grew up with his father, who battled alcohol abuse.
Later he went through a lot of career detours and failed business ventures, and he soon found himself $80,000 in credit card debt, with financial institutions and collection agencies beating down on his door.
He held on as long as he could. After he was evicted from his own place, he lived out of his office, and he was about to lose that as well.
Plenty of doors had closed by then, and the next one he opened was inside his own head.
How he turned things around comes further down. First, three beliefs about asking that keep a lot of people from ever starting.
They usually come from well-meaning friends and family, and each one makes the next ask a little harder.
Confidence with asking grows the way most skills do, by using it. Early in the track, Steve has you remember a time you were brave and put yourself forward, whatever the answer was, and then he tells you where that courage lives:
Steve, on the track
That courage is part of you, and it grows every time you use it.
Think of the times you have said no yourself: an invitation turned down because you were tired, an offer passed over because the timing was wrong. Those answers were about your day and your needs, and they said nothing at all about the person who asked.
Steve, on the track
Their answer is about their day and their needs, and you remain exactly who you are.
This one feels the safest, and it costs the most. Not asking settles the answer in advance, and it teaches your mind that asking is dangerous, so the next ask feels even harder than the last.
Steve, on the track
So many of the best things in life begin with someone being brave enough to ask.
The Verdict Reflex sits underneath every one of these beliefs, deciding the answer for the other person before you’ve said a word.
A no can sting, because people care about belonging. The sting is a signal, though, and the trouble starts when the mind treats it as a measure of what you’re worth.
The Verdict Reflex
The habit of treating any answer that isn’t a warm yes as a judgment on your whole worth, until never asking seems like the safest choice.
Picture a gavel resting on a letter that never got sent. The verdict was handed down before anyone else had a say, and the person who handed it down was the one holding the letter. In daily life, the gavel tends to come down in moments like these:
None of those is a verdict. People have their own worries and their own reasons, and a short reply often means nothing more than a busy day. The reflex reads them as rejection anyway, and someone who expects rejection tends to pull back, which can bring about the very distance they feared.
So the way out starts with what you carry into an ask, and with how you read the answer.
The Kite String
This page’s name for the track’s central image. Each ask is a kite lifted to the wind, and your worth is the string in your hand, held calmly and steadily whatever the kite does.
The kite comes from the place the track relaxes you, a wide, open park on a bright and breezy spring afternoon. Steve puts it like this: “Sometimes it catches straight away, and sometimes it comes back down. And either way, you have learned something about the wind.”
Holding the string steady changes two things that matter more than any clever opening line:
The Verdict Reflex is easiest to catch in the second before an ask, and this takes seven seconds.
Think of one ask you’ve been putting off, big or small. Press start, and for seven seconds picture yourself making it.
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Did a verdict arrive before the answer? Tap whatever turned up:
Whatever turns up says nothing about you or your worth. It’s only a game.
Those verdicts have to come from somewhere, and many of them are built by everyday habits that feel like playing it safe.
These three feed the Verdict Reflex without anyone noticing:
The track turns each of these around, starting with one small ask a day.
With $80,000 of debt and an office he was about to lose, Steve discovered a way to reprogram his mind to attract everything he needed, and to put systems in place to get his life back on track.
He used a combination of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques and a specific framework for happiness and success, and from it he developed the Dream Life Mastery Program to get the results he wanted.
The change began inside his own head, which is exactly where the Verdict Reflex does its work.
Today he is the President of the American Alliance of Hypnotists and of the American Union of NLP. At one time, he had 30,000 students enrolled in his programs.
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The track works in two parts, and between them they’re designed to build six habits:
The first part takes you to a wide, open park on a bright, breezy spring afternoon, with daffodils nodding beneath the trees and kites dancing high in the blue sky. You sit down on the soft grass, and then you lift a kite of your own to the breeze.
As Steve counts from ten down to one, the kite climbs higher and you sink deeper into relaxation. At six a gust dips it, and it rises again.
Hypnotists call this part the deepener, and on this track a kite carries it.
The second part is where the suggestions come in, spoken while your mind is quiet and open. Steve gives you a short routine for the flutter before an ask: you stand tall, let one easy breath out and say to yourself, “Asking is how I find out.”
Couldn’t you just tell yourself not to take a no personally? Those words have to compete with a habit that runs underneath your thinking, which is why self-hypnosis talks to the subconscious directly. The track is designed to make swaps like these:
This second part is self-hypnosis at work, and together the two parts build the Kite String.
A self-hypnosis track by Dr. Steve G. Jones.
This track is designed to help you ask freely and reach out warmly, so that every answer you receive helps you move forward. It’s made for asking someone out, sending the first message, inviting a friend, applying for a job, asking for a raise and speaking up in a meeting.
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In love and in friendship, the track has you reach out first: you send the first message, ask the person you like to spend some time with you, and show a real interest in the people you meet.
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Think of the good things in your life that began with a single ask: a friendship that started with a simple hello, or a job or a relationship that began because someone asked a question.
Holding the Kite String steady could bring you:
Dr. Jones coaches top Hollywood directors, sports stars and CEOs. This track puts his approach to courage and asking into an MP3 you can play at home, for one payment of $29.95.
Spread over the 21 days he suggests you stay with one track, that’s about $1.43 a day.
Stop Fear of Rejection is a single self-hypnosis audio track, sold on its own at one price.
A habit as old as the Verdict Reflex takes more than one listen to change, so listen every day and stay with this one track for 21 days before you move on to another. The track itself asks you to make one small ask each day and mark it on your calendar.
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It’s easy to carry on as before, rehearsing the message, deleting it and telling yourself the timing wasn’t right.
Meanwhile the Verdict Reflex keeps handing down verdicts before anyone else has had a say. Each skipped ask makes the next one feel riskier, and the invitations, chances and friendships keep going to the people who asked.
Or you can start tonight. Put on your headphones, press play and let the Kite String settle in while you relax in the spring park.
Then make one small ask tomorrow. You feel the flutter, stand tall, breathe out and ask with a warm smile. If the answer is yes, you enjoy it, and if it’s no, you say thank you, give yourself credit for asking and look for the next one.
You have a full 30 days to change your mind.
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It’s this page’s name for the habit of hearing a no, a silence or a short reply as a judgment on your whole worth. It runs underneath your conscious thinking, which is why it can make never asking seem like the safest choice.
It’s this page’s name for the track’s central image. Each ask is a kite lifted to the wind, and your worth is the string you hold steady whatever the kite does. The track builds it with deep relaxation and calm suggestions: your worth settled before you ask, a no read as information about timing or fit, and credit for every ask.
No track can promise what other people will answer, and this one never asks you to push past anyone’s no. It works on your side: asking freely, reading people fairly, taking every answer gracefully and moving on to the next ask.
With headphones, somewhere you can relax and won’t be disturbed. Never play it while driving or in a moving vehicle, and if you are under a doctor’s care, check with your doctor first. Steve suggests listening every day and staying with this one track for 21 days.
Then please talk with a counsellor or therapist, as the track itself suggests. A fear of rejection that gets in the way of work or study deserves that kind of support, and the track can sit alongside it.
Everyone is different. Many people feel calm and relaxed from the very first listen, and the new habits build each time you play it. That is why Steve suggests listening every day for a minimum of two weeks, and longer if you like.
Yes. The program is built on broad human psychology, with techniques, tips and methods that people have used for thousands of years, so it suits adults of any age. Whether you're 21 or 61, it is never too early or too late to start building better habits.
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Your worth was settled long before you asked anything of anyone. It comes with you into every conversation, and it leaves with you, whole, whatever the answer.
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